Fine Print

• Constitution: 5’7”/170cm, ~125lbs/56.5kg ; 34D/24”/36” ; corseted waist 17”-19” ; visibly tattooed with nature details, esoteric & mystic symbols, and a small menagerie
• Wisdom: 30-something; well-read with a soft spot for ancient history and philosophy, but will fall asleep if made to watch baseball; does not like most modern cinema pacing, would much rather watch The X Files
• Strength: can lift a gallon of milk, cannot lift a cow ; regrettably, needs a moment every couple hours to check my glucose levels, but I've always been told I can be pretty sweet ♥
• Dexterity: harpist, keyboardist, and enthusiast of needlepoint crafts, however, will wait for you to hold the door
• Charisma: I have an overtly feminine aesthetic, and am usually wearing black lace, velvet, leather, satin, or chiffon— most often a sensuous combination. I can still interpret a dress code and am mindful of my overall public image. My outfit will invoke your imagination, but it won’t embarrass you. I wear soft scents that linger close to my skin and don’t announce my presence in a room, but they may equally linger near your collar as a gentle reminder of our time together. You may enjoy the brushes of vanilla, honey, and rose blossoms, but please let me know ahead of time if I need to be mindful of my fragrance.

• switchy, but most often leading the dance
• ASAP: as slow as possible; as in, please savor our time together, so I can feel comfortable doing the same
• kink-literate & experienced, which also means I don't dive in head-first without testing the waters; let's make sure we're on the same page about the basics before we start building intensity
• nothing is guaranteed out of our time together and consent can be withdrawn at any time for any reason; pleasurable experiences only arise out of mutual respect and prioritization of each other's safety, and you will be held to the same standards I hold myself to
• longer dates do require food-- a 4hr booking or longer should include at least a meal or similar, but please let's limit any social drinking to no more than one or two so we can properly appreciate our time together

Generally I prefer getting to know each other more organically, but I'm equally as practical-- use this list as more of a guideline than a rulebook. For special occasions, or just to be thoughtful, tipping via cash or cashapp ($lavandes) will never not be appreciated, but there's also:

• time at a museum-- fine art, natural history, or local history-- will always be my favorite way to spend an afternoon; I have a wishlist of local and less-than-local museums I'm yearning for, and an equally long list of ones I want to return to
• live music pairs well with passionate dates; yes to symphonies, chamber performances, club venues, dive bar mosh pits, basement shows, and punk porch parties, but please no thank you to anything at stadiums or similarly extremely large venues (this includes fairground + festival events)
• cannabis is my preferred vice, my favorite strains include Durban Poison, White Widow, and Jack Herer ; pre-rolls are fun & convenient, but I personally love the sensory experience of rolling high-quality flower by hand
• my US women's clothing sizing: 32D (can also wear 34C), 2-4/US small, shoe size 7.5
• I love sharing time practicing yoga asanas with others; even if you're not "flexible", I'd be thrilled to go to a yoga class with you, or even just doing a yoga video together after sleeping in during a late morning ; if you're more of an appreciator of the physical arts than you are a participant, a gift card to a local yoga studio for a few classes will definitely be utilized and I won't forget to make sure you also experience the benefits
• long distance gifts can be sent via Throne

I can always use extra harp strings, audio equipment, or a scheduled visit from a local luthier for harp maintenance, but please only show you value my love for music if you want to be considered an extremely thoughtful and favored human.